Maybe it's just me...

Ageplay & Autonepiophilia: Pedophile & Incest Friendly? (Part One)

Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:36:14 -0400

Ageplay is a form of roleplay in which one or both of the people involved impersonate a person of a drastically different age than their own. This form of roleplay in BDSM would usually involve a young looking Mistress to play an even younger role, (like a schoolgirl or a daughter) but can also involve the Dom to play a role much older than her own, like a governess or a teacher to a naughty “12 year old boy”.

Ageplay is a far more common type of play than many, considering the fact the most pon industries make the big bucks with Teen Sex oriented advertising. Sites like barelylegal.com thrive on selling vids of girls who look like they’re fresh out of puberty. Teenist.com is a tube-esque TONS of videos based on the young girl persona. From Dad & Daughter incest snarios, to young rape & abuse, to grandpa/granny porn, to co-ed roomates… all of which, ageplay.

“Oh daddy, give it to me rough”

Autonepiophilia, also known as: Adult Baby Play, Infantilism & Mommy roleplay- is a form of play in BDSM where the submissive acts as if he is a small child, toddler or infant. Being an adult baby arouses the sub and he or she becomes sexually satisfied from everything from diaper changes to nap time.

Th AB/DL (Adult Baby / Diaper Lover) Community is HUGE & most commercial dungeons include materials like baby bottles, bibs, adjustable Depends, baby powder and bonnets to accommodate the AB/DL’rs. Most of the roleplays associated with AB play ussually include the Pro Domme playing the role of a Mommy, older sister or babysitter. Latex, leather and PVC are scrapped to the side for night gowns, flower dresses and aprons. During the 5 years I have been a Pro Domme, I have definitely encountered more dommes who are not willing to accommodate AB play, than those that would and even some of the willing Dommes are very picky on the scenario Partly, I understand. Either you understand why someone has urges to revert back to childhood, or you think its just plain weird. There are no in betweens here. Goo Goo Ga Ga.

Differences:

The major difference in AB play and General Ageplay is all in the numbers. AB/DL’rs like to imagine that they are small and usually too small to fully pronounce what thy need. This ranges from an infant to about 4 years old.

Age play doesn’t have a specific age bracket but typically it goes from as young as 9 to as old as 60.

NOTE: Not all AB’rs are DL’rs. Some people just like to wear diapers.

The real questions:

If you are a 56 year old man who asks a young looking Domme to portray “your 12 year old daughter” or “14 year old student” does that make you a pedophile at heart?
Mommy roleplays, daddy roleplays… they are after all, JUST roleplays… but with such a topic, how can you deny the incestuous overtone?
Adult baby, DL’rs and ageplay clients: are you simply an older man who has sick fantasies and seeks a safe outlet in which to utilize them without being judged? or an “Evil Pervert”?

Maybe it’s just me..

(To Be Continued)

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Wed, 02 Nov 2011 11:38:55 -0400

Sex Battles: Such a shame. Pro Vs Lifestyle.

Tue, 25 Oct 2011 18:56:00 -0400

In my experience I have met many types of girls who utilize the sexual aspect of nature to make a quick buck, a living or even a full on career.

Escorts

Street Walkers

Exotic Dancers

Peep Show Girls

Phone Sex Operators

Web Cam Ladies

Pro Dominatrices

Pro Submissives

No matter what your thing is: Sex worker, Fetishist, Sexual Deviant, Submissive, Dominant… There is always something similar that “your kind” dislikes.

The Peep show girls look down at Exotic Dancers

The Escorts look down at the Street Walkers

The Phone Sex Operators Snub the Cam Girls

And the Lifestyle Dommes look down on Pro’s

In some ways a part of me can understand each point of view and can understand why one profession wouldn’t like to be associated with another. In other ways there is a little voice in me that says “Shut the FUCK up whores, we are all in this together!”

Allow me to elaborate.

A Sex worker is a person who participates in sexually themed activities for the exchange of money. This title is commonly confused for strictly prostitutes, but all erotic professions are considered sex work. In sex worker land there is a lot of stigmas and fucked up politics. This includes sex worker vs sex worker discrimination. An act that needs to stop.

Today we are going to focus on the battles within domination… The Pro Vs Lifestyle showdown.

In the complex world of domination, just like any other complex world… there are class systems, politics and war.War, is what I am going to particularly focus on today. The oh so stupid world of Domina On Domina argumentative bullshit.

A Pro Domme, Professional Dominant Or Pro Dominatrix: Is a woman (or male, hmm) who participates in Fetish, Role-play, and BDSM activities in exchange for money. Her many slaves, fans and admirers are are ready and willing to serve through paid sessions, which are typically an hour in length. There is also the matter of “commercial dungeons” which are play spaces with various dungeon themed rooms and Mistresses that are employed there, or rent the rooms for a fee.

House Pro Dommes: Are mistresses that work for a dungeon and do not advertise independently. The dungeon books their appointments for them and advertises their specialties. Although you can be into the lifestyle and still work at a commercial play space, that is more rare nowadays than it used to be.

Independent Dommes: Advertise, promote and work for themselves. They may have affiliations with dungeons and play spaces, and are more prone to be into the lifestyle than house Pro Dommes.

Domme/Sub Sex and oral servitude is frowned upon and is not a normal protocol in a Pro Domme session.

A Lifestyle Mistress: Is a woman who lives the BDSM lifestyle 24/7. Their slaves are usually live-in and show 24 hr dedication to their mistress withing the home, at the grocery store, fetish parties, dungeon atmospheres… you name it. The BDSM activities between a lifestyle mistress and her slave can range from harmless bondage, spankings, submission and house-slave work to various forms of sexual encounters. With Oral Servitude being the most common practice, showing an ultimate dedication.

Lifestyle Dommes usually attend events, munches and kinky meetings, more so than a Pro Domme typically would.

Leather families: Lifestyle dominants usually belong to leather families. These are basically households or groups of kinksters who form a sort of brotherhood or loving familyesque community . Each leather family has its own hierarchy systems, emblems, customs and rules.

So what’s the war?

Its stupid really.

Lifestyle Mistresses look down on Pro Dommes because they feel as if ALL Professional Dominatrices are in BDSM for, is a potential for income. They feel as if their world shouldn’t be tainted by fake domina’s trying to make a quick buck. Butchering a culture they have worked so long to build. This in a way is true, the money is an incentive but a Dominatrix can not be a great dominatrix (Pro or Lifestyle) unless they have a true interest in the craft of domination. This world is not for everyone & if you can tough it out in BDSM no matter what your title, you should be entitled to be respected as a true kinkster.

Pro Domina’s look nastily at lifestyle Mistresses because they think that sharing your talents in BDSM for free is unnecessary and with BDSM being a decently paid industry, they figure “why not make money doing what you love?” It seems stupid to most Pro Dommes that lifestyles would do for free what they charge for… and BDSM services are not cheap.

I think it is all ridiculous and that the war between the perverted need to be stopped.

Can’t we all just get along?

Maybe its just Me,

Asia M.

Killer Instincts: The Deadly Fetishist?

Fri, 30 Sep 2011 10:49:00 -0400

As many of you know, all fetishes are vastly different. To some Mistresses, the tamer the fetish the better. To most others it is the complete opposite, they love an exciting and unique play session with their submissive.

As a Pro Domme (Professional Dominatrix) I feel it is somewhat my duty to accommodate as many different types of fetishes that I can morally, physically & mentally stand. With that being said, there are some fetishes that come very close to ANY Mistresses “Do Not Cross” line. Lets talk about the deadly ones, shall we?

Once upon a time, at an old dungeon, I used to see a guy who’s fetish was to watch women die. Lets name him Kent. Kent Used to see as many women as he could muster in an hours time, one by one, for various kill scenarios. You name it, he’ll kill you with it. Shotgun, pistol, machete, whatever he felt suited the ‘scene’. As long as it inevitably ended in you lying there -lifeless, with your eyes wide open then he was happier than a fat kid in a Hostess factory.

Some Dommes reacted great to this form of play.

“At least it involves SOME type of creativity to die believably, like a stage performance” one Mistress would say.

“Yeah, I think Kent is fine, he’s harmless and fun” another would agree.

Meanwhile, other girls would refuse to see him. Stating that the kill scenes were a bit “Too creepy” or “Have you seen the look in his eyes when your lying there? He’s too serious. Its a little alarming.”

There was another guy I used to see, lets call him Jack. Now Jack was a little different. He was absolutely fascinated at the thought of women loosing their life in a slow and desperate matter, quicksand. He would come in -laptop in tow- with loads of pre-loaded quicksand kill videos. Of course to Jack these videos weren’t authentic enough if there wasn’t pinkish, blood filled bubbles arising through the sand at the very end, his climatic moment.

So… the big question is :

Just because a person has fantasies about killing another, does that mean he or she is born to kill?

and furthermore:

A position of being ones Dominatrix involves being the ONLY one (or the only ones, depending on how many mistresses he sees regularly) who knows the things a man can’t tell his wife, children, friends and co-workers. Ever. Not only is the dungeon a safe (no sex, no non-consensual violence) way to act out the fantasy, may it also be a preventative method to ACTUALLY act out such behaviors? or Is it further propelling one to yearn to do those things even more?

Personally, I’d like to believe that I am doing a good deed and a good service (not only to my clients, but to the community) by seeing these men through the most taboo of scenarios. As an avid researcher of serial killer phenomenon, I truly believe that one can not control what his desires are and that acting those desires out in a safe manner is the healthiest approach to dealing with them. I think that if these men didn’t come to me or other Mistresses than that urge would build up and inevitably topple over into the community, causing the return of another Son Of Sam or an even worse new killer, The Quicksand Drowner.

With kink and thoughts,

Miss Asia Monroe

"Oh mistress, that hurts so good."

Fri, 26 Aug 2011 11:34:01 -0400

“Oh mistress, that hurts so good.”

- Former slave

Smokin' Hot Fetishist: Fresh off the presses.

Mon, 22 Aug 2011 10:53:00 -0400

Smoking fetishes.

Contrary to what many people believe I DON’T love smoking fetishists just because I like to light it up now and then. The root of my unusual love for smoking fetishes has to be the sultry undertone in those sessions. It might be the fact that a smoking session isn’t typically just a smoking session, there is a lot more involved. A lot of times the smoking fetish seems to be manifested by a strong female figure in the fetishists life, like his mother and her friends. Voice patterns, seductive movements, old fashioned stockings & garters, cigarette holders, elbow-length gloves & knowing how to perfectly cross your legs is important in capturing the essence of a past life very reminiscent of the mid 1900’s.

Although my love for smoking fetishes may also be derived from the sadist in me. Human ashtrays are intriguing, especially when they go all the way. Flicking ashes on a tongue is awesome, but not as awesome as putting your cigarette out on one and having the slave swallow away with the butts. Burning them all over (and especially on the balls) is a riot. Whats better than a self cleaning ashtray?

Smoking & the community

I am well aware that smoking is bad for you. Who the fuck isn’t? I appreciate the Truth commercials and the endless babble about how smoking kills for childrens’ sake, but truth-be-told (no pun intended) a smoker simply will not quit until he or she is ready. Period.

During my normal vigorous internet research I came across smokingpassions.com, a social network/dating site especially for heavy smokers (and as it appears smoking fetishists alike!) to meet, greet, smoke & mingle.

There is also http://smokingfetishkingdom.com/, a nice little neat forum based site.

Puff the magic dragon.